We are leaky, you’re quite right, and sometimes we are also inclined to wander off. There’s nothing wrong with meeting with a group to get your regular refill – most of us do that with our churches and home groups. A part of the problem for you guys is that you don’t seem to have become connected in to the body of Jesus where you are, and this is partly the result. I’m not blaming you: sometimes it’s hard to make that connection. Remember toe coal analogy.

But you’re now also in a place where you know you don’t have all the answers, and that’s a good thing. Why don’t you and Kita get together, set an evening aside and ask God to fill you both up again. Make a little time, give Him some space and see what He does.

If there’s anything you’ve done that you think is sin then it’s also a good time to confess and be released from the guilt that goes with it. Sometimes sin can just get in the way and stop us hearing God. It’s the elephant in the room with him, and it can seem so big that we can’t hear or see Him round it.

The other thing is to just be quiet before Him and wait for a bit. It’s often hard to just stop, but so often it’s when we aren’t ‘doing’ that we start to hear again.